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A Look Inside Lifestyle Boutique Ozarks Bittersweet in St. James

Whether you’re searching for the perfect gift for your bestie’s birthday or you’re in the mood to treat yourself to a little something special, you’ll likely find it at Ozarks Bittersweet, located at 105 N. Jefferson Street, in St. James. 

The mother-daughter owned boutique features a diverse inventory of clothing for women, along with some items for kids, plus women’s accessories like jewelry and purses. Sourcing the clothes from markets in Las Vegas, owner Nancy Hughes, and her daughter Polly, make sure the apparel differs from what you may find in other area shops. Ozarks Bittersweet offers customers a truly curated shopping experience, while the clothing and other inventory reflects that cozy, small town charm you expect to find in a locally-owned lifestyle boutique.

a mannequin wearing a tan sweater that says coffee weather with a long flannel duster over it
The clothing selections at Ozarks Bittersweet range from casual wear to pieces that can be dressed up or down. Photo credit: The Socialite_Amanda Bretz

The clothing items range from casual wear that’s perfect for coffee with a friend or running errands, to dresses, tops, bottoms, and other pieces that could be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. 

Additionally, there’s a selection of items to make your home cozy and beautiful, with everything from scented candles, decorative throw pillows, artificial flower arrangements, lighting, and more. There are also paper goods such as greeting cards and specialty books on a variety of subjects – from making drinks to gardening and more.

a display of bracelets and rings
From bracelets to rings and earrings, the jewelry at the boutique adds that perfect sparkle to your outfit. Photo credit: The Socialite_Amanda Bretz.

If you’re looking for something for the foodie in your life, or you need something to take to your next gathering, there’s also a selection of items like bottled sauces, vinegars, and olives, as well as dry baking mixes, nuts, and other snacks. 

And, in addition to the unique finds, the boutique itself is a lovely retail space. Together with the artful displays throughout the store, there are numerous historical details inside the space that add to the beauty and overall aesthetic. The building is 125 years old and features lots of exposed brick and an arched entryway that’s indicative of the period when it was built.

a wide shot of the store's display of fall home decor with items like lamps, dried flowers, candles, decorative pillows
The store also carries a variety of items for the home like dried flowers, scented candles, lighting and more. Photo credit: The Socialite_Amanda Bretz.

Prior to opening the store, Nancy owned another boutique for over 40 years, also called Ozarks Bittersweet, but that store was located in Anchorage, Alaska, where Nancy lived for over 50 years. When she decided to relocate back to her hometown, she found the vacant space and felt it was the ideal spot to open another boutique and continue the name. 

The 2,500-square-foot store has two rooms indoors, along with an adjacent patio space that features vintage garden decor and plants, seasonally. The store opened in two phases, with part of the space opening by selling Christmas decor last season, while the store in its current version opened in May. Nancy shares that in the short time since it’s opened, the community has embraced the business to the point that she’s thinking about expanding into the adjacent building.

a display of bottles of sauces, vinegar,s and olives
With a selection of sauces, vinegars, condiments, nuts, dried baking mixes, and more, Ozarks Bittersweet is the perfect place to pick up a hostess gift or items to take to your next dinner party. Photo credit: The Socialite_Amanda Bretz.

“We’ll carry more clothing, because that’s our biggest seller,” she says of the possible expansion.

Other items she’s considering for the next phase will include jewelry, Turkish rugs, and greeting cards.

Ozarks Bittersweet is located at 105 N. Jefferson Street, in St. James. Learn more about the business by following it on Facebook or Instagram.

*As we head into the holiday season, I want to highlight more small businesses and I hope to write a Shop Small Holiday Gift Guide that will feature some of the small local shops and businesses that carry gifts (and experiences) for everyone on your holiday gift list. If you’re a small business and want to be considered in the guide, or if you know a great boutique I should include in the guide, fill out the Submit an Event or Story form and I’ll get back to you.

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Love YouTube Podcasts? Catch Me Interviewing Community Impact-Makers on Community Chat with The Socialite

It’s been a busy couple of months. I launched Small Town Socialite Southern Illinois, announced my plans for Coffee with The Socialite events, and I also started a podcast on YouTube called Community Chat with The Socialite. What can I say, I’m consistent with my branding! And, I hope it goes without saying that my brand is all about community-building, highlighting small businesses, and small town life.

Late last year I secured my YouTube channel name @smalltownsocialite, because even at that time I knew I wanted to share content on YouTube, I just wasn’t sure what it would look like. As I’ve met more people and shared their stories, I’ve realized that some people’s stories are just better captured through conversations.

I also realize that people are busier than ever and might not have time to read an article, but can put a podcast on to play in the background while they get some steps in on the treadmill, unload the dishwasher, or are spending time doing meal prep in the kitchen. The goal with Community Chat with The Socialite is to continue to share the stories of people that are making an impact in their local communities, in big and small ways.

So far, I’ve released episodes of conversations with small town food reviewer KG, and watch the bonus episode, where he interviewed me! I also sat down with private chef and caterer Meg Lang, and Jessyca Tello, a graphic designer who recently moved to WashMo from Texas. I’m in talks with possible future guests and right now, I’m starting slowly, aiming to release an episode every other Sunday or so.

The next episode is slated to release on Sunday, Sept. 20 and it’s actually going to be a solo-cast, where I’ll go into a little more details about the podcast, the kind of people I’m looking to interview, and some future plans for the podcast.

I hope you’ll subscribe to my YouTube channel and catch the latest episode featuring Jessyca from Digital Designs by Jessyca.

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Get Your Coffee and Book Fix at Sugar & Spice Book Cafe in Sullivan

There’s a new place to get your coffee, baked goods, and cozy book store fix, and it’s all under one roof, at Sugar & Spice Book Cafe in Sullivan at 111 N. Clark St. Located in the former home of Clark Street Cafe & Bakery, the establishment is owned and operated by Jessica O’Dell.

Inside the decor has been completely reimagined, with hints of dark academia aesthetic found throughout. Jessica, who shares that she and her team did most of the work themselves, has incorporated dark hues on the walls, gold accents like a massive gold framed mirror in the cafe’s main dining area and gold framed book quotes, along with leather seating areas, warm lighting, and fireplace features.

A portion of the bookshelves at Sugar & Spice Book Cafe in Sullivan. Photo credit: Amanda Bretz_The Socialite.

Besides the unique, cozy decor greeting customers, the pastry case is filled with made in house goodies that practically beckon upon arrival. Some of the selections and flavors rotate, but typically include items like cookies, cupcakes, cinnamon rolls, pies, cakes, and more. Opening a coffee shop and book store was always something Jessica thought about doing at some point, but when the former cafe announced its closure earlier this year, she saw the opportunity to make her “some day” dream happen.

“I had only really planned to do a book store and coffee shop, but when this building came up I knew I would add food.”

There are multiple spots in the cafe to cozy up with a book and a drink. Photo credit: Amanda Bretz_The Socialite.

The food menu features breakfast and lunch offerings like biscuits and gravy, egg bites, salads, wraps, and sandwiches. And, since the business has recently been granted its alcohol license, there’s plans to launch cocktails, mocktails, beer, and wine, along with with some flatbreads and charcuterie boards, hopefully by the early fall.

Once everything is in place, the goal is to stay open later on Friday nights and offer the drinks and additional menu items as a way to be a new date night or girls night out spot. 

The pastry case is filled with all kinds of tempting goodies, but I have a weakness for gooey cinnamon rolls and pumpkin-flavored items – and this treat checked both boxes, so obviously I couldn’t order something else! Photo credit: Amanda Bretz_The Socialite.

“We’re planning on doing tropes or book boyfriend names for the drinks,” she shares about the cocktail menu.

Prior to opening her own business, Jessica worked as a manager at a bridal shop, as well as working in restaurants and coffee shops, and she said that the managerial experience has really helped her now on the entrepreneurial journey.

The drink menu

“I knew I wanted to make all the syrups for the coffees, and we’ve been having a lot of fun making the fall flavors and coming up with fun names,” she shares. 

The fall drinks will also be made with homemade syrups, and when the cocktails roll out, those will also be made with in-house, real ingredients not mass produced bottled mixes.

My first visit to the cafe was on a rainy morning, making it the perfect time to order a hot chocolate. Photo credit: Amanda Bretz_The Socialite.

Currently, the coffee selection ranges from drip to lattes available hot or iced, and protein coffee, made hot or iced with the inclusion of various protein powders to help you reach your daily protein goals. There’s also matcha, lemonade, hot chocolate, and a variety of teas, as well as a number of Lotus energy drinks. And, if you want to take a drink with you for later or bring one to your bestie, you can get any iced drink canned for a small additional fee. 

The bookstore

Jessica says that the community has shown a lot of excitement about the book selections and they’re in the process of making room for more bookshelves to increase the inventory. Currently, there’s multiple genres available, from thrillers and young adult novels, to a book shelf lined with books written by local authors to a wide selection of romance, including romantasy titles, which is Jessica’s favorite book genre.

Since the books and book shelves were a pretty significant initial investment, Jessica took to Facebook and presented local businesses with the unique opportunity of sponsoring a book shelf. Local businesses took advantage of the opportunity and each book shelf in the main book store area of the establishment features a gold plaque which names the business sponsor. 

In addition to bringing in local businesses for sponsorships and hopefully becoming a Friday evening spot for dates and friends to gather, there’s one other way Sugar & Spice Book Cafe is building community, and that’s through an in-person book club.

“We also have a book club that meets once a month and we just have snacks and talk about the book,” Jessica explains.

Spots are limited for the Sugar & Spice Book Club, which currently reads romantasy or romance titles, but the book club is also expanding to include thriller titles as well. Visit the website to sign up for the book club. 

Find out more about the cafe by following it on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok, or visit its website.

I love the cafe so much that I chose it as the site for the first ever Coffee with The Socialite event, happening on Saturday, Sept. 19 from 12-1:30 p.m. I hope to see you there!

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More Than Punches and Strikes -Everything I Learned at a Women’s Self-Defense Seminar at American Street Edge

I’ve wanted to attend a women’s self-defense class for years, but was hesitant to actually register and go through with it for a few reasons. My resistance stemmed from the instructors I saw offering the classes. No shade to any particular instructor or school, but I had a real worry of being stuck in a class with an instructor who’d bark orders similar to a drill sergeant, or someone who would make me feel less than if I wasn’t able to physically do the moves or pick them up right away. And as a woman, I don’t think I’m alone in those feelings.

When I was approached by Timothy Fancher, owner of American Street Edge, a self-defense school in St. Clair, about attending a women’s self-defense seminar in exchange for writing an article about my experience, I immediately said yes.

The group of ladies in attendance at the women’s self-defense seminar at American Street Edge in St. Clair. Photo credit: American Street Edge

This past spring I connected with Tim to write an article about the school, which opened in March of this year. During our initial conversation it was evident he had a calm demeanor and loads of expertise (he’s got 40 years in martial arts, and is a fourth-degree black belt in American Kenpo Karate). Immediately following our initial interview in March, I was able to stick around and watch him teach a group of kids. 

Part of being a writer is being an observer and after 20 years as a journalist, I’d like to think I’m pretty darn good at observing people. When I watched Tim teach a class full of elementary school aged kids I noticed that he’s not just a patient instructor, but that he also had a way of explaining the techniques and strikes to kids that were relatable and easy to understand. 

Now that I’ve been a part of the women’s self-defense seminar I can see that Tim instructs adults in the same way. The difference in his instruction comes down to multiple factors: his diverse professional background and martial arts experience, years of real street defense, and his distinctive, academic approach to guiding students on ways to manage fear, and together, these elements help make up the American Street Edge system that Tim has developed.

The seminar is a mix of physical self-defense techniques and verbal instruction – and the two modalities work hand in hand, explained using real-life scenarios, that will help you gain not only practical skills, but the “why” behind the techniques.  Since you’re using those movements, either with a partner or on the school’s self-defense dummies Bob and Ivan, you start to build muscle memory right in the seminar through repetition. 

And, because not all forms of self-defense are physical, there were several instances where Tim helped us all understand steps to not only stay calm, but how to stop certain scenarios quickly. One such instance is how to stop a verbal bully in their tracks. As far too many of us have experienced, bullying isn’t something that stops at the playground. Today people are bullied online and in their workplace, among other places, and during the verbal portion of the seminar, we learned a simple yet effective method to stop a workplace bully before the situation takes a toll on your mental or physical well-being.

man and woman in self-defense school having heated discussion
Tim asked me to act like a workplace bully for a toxic workplace scenario, and let’s just say, I understood the assignment. He’s lucky he has thick skin! Also, Tim, I’m sorry for what I said during improv 🙂 Photo credit: American Street Edge

I learned a ton that evening and even though I was in a group of seven other women, six I’d never met before (my sister attended with me), I instantly felt comfortable. Here’s a run down of the things I learned in the 2.5 hour class:

  • Multiple techniques to defend myself in a variety of scenarios 
  • How to carry myself so I don’t look like a victim
  • Ways to increase my environmental awareness
  • How to shut down a conversation with “twitchy strangers” that may approach me in a public place
  • Practical ways to be “better at violence” than those who might want to do me harm
  • An easy breakdown of the techniques I learned and an explanation of how to practice them at home, like using a wall for a certain move to make sure I’m keeping proper form
  • A verbal method to shut down a bully, while remaining composed and respectful
  • Bonus – channeling my inner improv skills (and mean girl) by being selected to be the “workplace bully” in a toxic workplace scenario 

I can’t stress enough the amount of skills and knowledge that’s presented to attendees in the seminar and the incredible value offered. There are plans for additional women’s self-defense classes this fall, so be sure to follow American Street Edge on Facebook to learn more about any upcoming seminars. In addition, there are weekly, no contract adult classes, and you can even take a trial class first to be sure it’s a good fit, so you have nothing to lose. Find the schedules for all the classes offered along with other helpful information on the American Street Edge Facebook page. The school is also offering a variety of freebies the week of Aug. 24-28, 2026, details on the free offerings are outlined in this post.