If you’ve ever thought about lending a helping hand to those around you, but don’t know where to start, you’re not alone. According to Megan Burridge, founder of a new Facebook group called By This They’ll Know, a lot of people have a desire to help others, but the logistics that can be behind the act of caring for our neighbors can make it feel like it’s too hard to start.
“I truly believe people want to help others but don’t know how,” Megan explains. “I like to use the analogy of attending a wedding reception: you know you’ll end up on the dance floor, but so many people don’t want to go first,” she shares with a laugh. “But once someone does, then more people come out to the dance floor.”
That belief comes from some observations she made during a recent lived experience. In the summer of 2025, Megan’s husband faced some health challenges and during that time she said so many people reached out to her and offered to help. She felt overwhelmed by the outpouring of kindness, but it also highlighted some gaps she’s noticed within her faith community.
As a Christian, Megan believes a big part of living by that faith involves helping others. However she’s noticed that there can be a gap between churches and individual Christians stepping up to help others when compared to people not affiliated with a particular faith.
“I noticed that most people who are helping are not identifying as Christian,” Megan says.
That didn’t sit well with her and what she believes she’s meant to do as a Christian. Motivated to do something about her observation and taking inspiration from a Bible verse, she formed By This They’ll Know on Facebook. In just a few short months, the group has grown to nearly 500 members. And, during that time, people have made an impact around their communities, especially over the past holiday season.
Just a few examples include member Alyssa and her children who held a food drive every Saturday in November. Alyssa and her kids passed out free hot cocoa to all who made a food donation and collected 1,145 items for local food pantries in the process.
Likewise, several members got together before Thanksgiving and assembled Thanksgiving meal kits, which consisted of canned and dry goods placed in a disposable turkey roasting pan.
And another member, Melissa, started a Blessing Box in her neighborhood. Similar to how a Little Free Library works, people can donate items like shelf stable food, hygiene products, scarves, gloves, and more, and the items are available for free, for anyone who needs them.
Although many people think of those in need in November and December, in reality the need for help knows no particular season, but thankfully, neither does kindness and giving. With a solid foundation formed over last fall, By This They’ll Know is on track to continue to grow and give people who are looking for way to help others a starting point. Going forward, Megan hopes to create events where people within By This They’ll Know can get together and get to know each other and build friendships and community with like-minded individuals.
Interested in learning more or getting involved? The group is open to a variety of faiths, as well as those who aren’t affiliated with any religion. Members can reside in Franklin, St. Charles, St. Louis, and Warren County areas, and beyond.
Note: This article is part of a series highlighting volunteer groups, individuals who give back to area causes, and people who are building community, such as the piece I wrote on The Homemade Exchange. If you know someone making a positive impact in or around the Franklin County area, email me at smalltownsocialitemo@gmail.com and I may feature them on the website.
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